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Extremely picky about accepting requests here as this is my personal space and I'm very protective of it. If you want to be friends, let's start on my public alt: @ru@fosstodon.org.

Lots of negativity abound, *sometimes* even without a CW if I don't have the capacity to do that in the moment.

Make sure you understand that that is what this profile of mine adds to your feed on most days.

I do not tolerate lewd/suggestive/sexual content on my home timeline without a CW. I'll literally unfollow you. Yes, I'm a sex-repulsed ace.

P.s. I may remove you from my followers if our interactions are very limited.

🎵 Gracie Adams — I miss you, I'm sorry

youtube.com/watch?v=nijx6Np0o4

Sorry, but this is the music video of the decade.

Unsolicited advice: always pay the full cancellation price, even if it's more than the non-refundable option.

Okay, this is wild.

Blink 182's "I Miss You" inspired The Chainsmokers' "Closer"?!

So why are people banning mastodon.social and mastodon.online? Is it true that they banned a PoC for calling out racism?

📌 read this before sending a follow request 

Extremely picky about accepting requests here as this is my personal space and I'm very protective of it. If you want to be friends, let's start on my public alt: @ru@fosstodon.org.

Lots of negativity abound, *sometimes* even without a CW if I don't have the capacity to do that in the moment.

Make sure you understand that that is what this profile of mine adds to your feed on most days.

I do not tolerate lewd/suggestive/sexual content on my home timeline without a CW. I'll literally unfollow you. Yes, I'm a sex-repulsed ace.

P.s. I may remove you from my followers if our interactions are very limited.

So it's Black Friday and I didn't get 2 months' notice?

It's not Black Friday after all.

Every time I think about starting that anonymous blog, I realise I have too much going on already.

It sucks, but it's the right call.

Meta, instances 

My friends on mastodon.social, mastodon.online, mstdn.social etc, please find a smaller instance when you can. Your Fediverse experience will be much better. If your interest is twitter style popularity, then don't listen to me.

*re-tooted because of the new announcement from weirder.earth.

And that's the fourth one down in Makoto Shinkai's filmography: Garden of Words.

As usual, in love with his landscapes, and his deliberate pushes in playing to your sense of memory, smell, and sound in what looks like an unassuming story.

A rare celebrity crush continues.

Pro-tip: $60/year will land more in his wallet than $5/month for 12 months. Liberapay lets you do this.

Correct me if I'm wrong though.

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I'd assume it's gonna take a bit of time and some massive effort for Hometown to have parity with Masto v4.

Please donate to @darius if you can for his efforts and, (much more importantly) his skill and time. 💚

Here you go:

* liberapay.com/tinysubversions
* patreon.com/tinysubversions

I just upped my donation from $10/year to $20/year (this will be billed in about 2 months now as opposed to ~4 months before).

"Toots" will never not be funny to me and that alone makes Mastodon objectively better than Twitter

ace questioning, inputs welcome (over DM if you're comfortable that way), unlisted repost 

Wow huge typo here.

Correction: Do I see relationships from a romantic* angle?

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ace questioning, inputs welcome (over DM if you're comfortable that way), unlisted repost 

Fresh concerns around my asexuality. Looking into the definition and maybe I'm not ace.

Do I feel sexual attraction? Yes. Extremely rarely. But I do.

Do I want to? No.

Do I see relationships more from an aro angle? Yes, absolutely. 100%. Always have.

Good old I-wish-I-was-X, but you really aren't X.

And it's not because I feel close to a person. That's not when I feel the sexual attraction. So I'm not thinking graysexual.

Also traummaaaaa ughhhh. Need to see a good therapist.

Nothing will ever come close to Netflix' Kotaro Lives Alone for me ever again.

Is anyone here who has moved to the with a "Skilled Worker visa" (previously known as "Tier 2 (General) work visa") and then settled in the UK permanently?

I'd love to have a chat with you!

Boosts are welcome.

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Crying even when you're happy
Smiling even when you're feeling lonely
It's because a part of you
Has made it here before the rest has

youtube.com/watch?v=L4MgF9fy0B

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